Marriage is not a Game
We are passionate about leading couples to live in the fullness of marriage as God created it. We will discuss many controversial topics.
Remember, it's Allan&Eve here to help you believe.
Episodes
46 episodes
"Is It Okay to Have Separate Outings with Biological Kids?"
Hey Believers, Navigating the dynamics of blended families can be challenging, especially regarding fairness and inclusion. Is it a bonding opportunity or a recipe for family conflict? Whether you're a parent, stepparent, or part of a ble...
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Episode 46
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16:27
Balancing Family Time: Should Stepchildren Always Be Included?
Hey Believers, Blending families is a unique journey, and sometimes, it brings up tough questions like whether stepchildren should be included in every family outing. In this video, we discuss our views on balancing family time with individual ...
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Episode 45
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15:15
"Faith, Family, and Marriage How to Stay Aligned with God’s Purpose"
Hey Believers, In this video, we dive into a thought-provoking question: Who comes first in a marriage? Join us as we explore the dynamics of faith, family, and marital relationships, discussing how prioritizing God, your spouse, and family mem...
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Episode 44
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17:29
Step-parenting dilemmas Should your spouse be responsible for your child
#stepparenting #marriagematters Hey Believers, In today’s video, we’re tackling some sensitive but important topics in blended family dynamics. Should a male step-parent change a young girl’s diaper? How much say should a bio...
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Episode 43
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23:05
"From Almost Divorce to Restoration:the Journey to Healing"
Hey Believers, In this candid video, we open up about one of the darkest periods in our marriage—how we almost divorced. From the pain of betrayal and the struggles of dealing with herpes to the lies and deception involving his ex, we faced cha...
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Episode 42
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19:17
"Filling in the Gaps: My Response to “(Allan)How I almost ruined my marriage.
Hey Believers, I'm responding to my husband's story about how he almost ruined our marriage in this video. While he shared his perspective, he left out some critical details, including the lies, deception, and secrets that hurt me deeply. These...
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Episode 41
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11:58
"How I Almost Ruined My Marriage, But God Saved It | A Powerful Testimony"
In this heartfelt testimony, I share how we came dangerously close to losing our marriage. Through struggles, mistakes, and moments of despair, I almost gave up—but God had other pl...
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Episode 40
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31:26
"Different Parenting Styles and Discipline: What Could Go Wrong in a Blended Family"
Hey Believers, "Disciplining stepchildren can be challenging, but it's essential for building a harmonious blended family. In this video, we share practical, faith-based advice on establishing healthy boundaries, fostering respect, and creating...
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Episode 39
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18:07
Prioritizing Your Child vs. Spouse What Happens When Roles Reverse?
Hey Believers, "In this video, we explore the complex dynamics that arise when parents prioritize their children over their spouse, only to later experience the reverse when the child grows up and chooses their own spouse over the parent. We di...
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Episode 38
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18:47
Do Stepkids Really Ruin Marriages? The Truth Behind the Struggles
Hey Believers, Do Stepkids Really Ruin Marriages? Uncovering the Truth Behind the StrugglesBlending families can be challenging, and it’s a common belief that stepchildren constitute a significant source of tension in marriages. But is ...
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Episode 37
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14:29
From vows to forever How to make your marriage last a lifetime
Hey Believers, "In this video, we dive into what it takes to make your marriage last forever. Whether you're just starting your journey or have been together for years, a strong and enduring marriage is built on love, faith, and dedication. We ...
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Episode 36
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20:48
The Hidden Struggles of Co-Parenting in Blended Families
Hey Believers, In this episode, we open up about the often-overlooked struggles of blended families and why we don’t recommend this family structure. Having experienced the challenges of co-parenting firsthand, we’ll discuss the emotional, rela...
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Episode 35
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17:45
Blended Families The Hard Truth and Why We Don’t Recommend It
Hey Believers, In today's episode, we tackle a topic that might surprise many: why we don't recommend a blended family. As a blended family, we understand the unique challenges of merging different households, parenting styles, and family tradi...
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Episode 34
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26:34
The Challenges of Blended Families Why It Might Not Be for You
Hey Believers, Navigating a blended family can be incredibly rewarding but challenging. In this video, we dive deep into the complexities of blended family dynamics and explore why it might not be the right path for everyone. We cover eve...
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Episode 33
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25:25
How to Handle In-Law and family conflicts Gracefully
Hey Believers, In this episode, we dive into one of the most challenging aspects of relationships: managing conflicts with in-laws and family members. Navigating these situations can be tricky, but with the right approach, you can handle them g...
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Episode 32
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Why Waiting for Marriage Before Having Children Matters
Hey, believers. In today's episode, we will discuss the importance of waiting to have children before marriage. Many of us jump into relationships and do things backward, but those steps have consequences. Stay locked in until the end. Thanks f...
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Episode 31
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16:10
Maintaining Love and Respect During Hard Talks
Hey Believers, it's sometimes hard to communicate about difficult or uncomfortable conversations. If you push through the irritation or frustration you may feel, it will get better, and these talks begin to get easier. Be understanding and show...
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Episode 30
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23:07
Grandma's Birthday Bash Unforgettable Moments and Surprises
Hey Believers, in today's video, we are taking you on the last journey regarding mistakes in our relationship during the dating stage. We all are here to learn and grow from our mistakes. We are happy to share this experience in hopes that some...
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Episode 29
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30:10
Unexpected Crisis Child's Medical Emergency in Our New Relationship
Hey believers, in today's episode, we will discuss one of the bumps in our journey. I found out that my 2-year-old had a brain tumor 4 months into our relationship. How we overcame the struggle and the miracle we received. Stay locked in until ...
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Episode 28
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23:46
Play dates with my ex: Challenges in my new relationship.
Hey Believers, every relationship has its journey through ups and downs. At the beginning of our relationship, Allan was still going on play dates with his ex-wife and daughter. Crazy right? Everyone has a different perspective on this topic, b...
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Episode 27
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21:26
"From Christmas Eve Chaos to Christmas Day frustration: Meeting His Family"
Hey Believers, in today's episode, we will continue our journey before marriage. We planned for me to meet Allan's family on Christmas. Christmas Eve, we were at my brother's house and things got rough for me. Follow us through this journey and...
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Episode 26
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16:07
Caught off guard the most unexpected moment on our trip
Hey Believers, We want to take you on a little journey into our lives in today's episode. What is a good love story without trials and tribulations? Car repossession, a trip to Chicago, and having sex outside of marriage are all a part of our j...
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Episode 25
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22:21
From confessions to connection our first date story
Hey Believers, today we will discuss our first date. We want you all on this journey to get to know us and our struggles. We have many ups and downs throughout the seasons, so stay locked in until the end. Thank you, and much love.Remem...
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Episode 24
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24:51
Shocking confession before our first date
Hey Believers, Everyone has a past before getting into a relationship. Today, we will explore the revealed secrets before we started dating. Many people keep secrets and wait until their spouse is already invested, which is the wrong way. Hones...
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Episode 23
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30:24
Digital Destiny Rekindling Connections on Facebook part 2
Hey Believers, In this video, I’m sharing the heartwarming story of how I found love on Facebook and how a simple compliment turned into a lifetime commitment. Join me as I take you through the journey that led to meeting my now-husband on a pl...
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Episode 22
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24:12